A pregnant Reddit user recently shared a troubling exchange with her husband that has sparked a strong reaction online. After discussing possible Christmas travel plans with their newborn and friends, she mentioned she might be willing to go depending on how her recovery from a December C-section went.
Her husband surprised her by asking if he could have a “free pass” to travel alone if she opted out. She was stunned, as she expected him to stay and care for her and the baby during this difficult time.
She shared her hurt feelings and asked Reddit if she was wrong to be upset. The response was clear: most users firmly supported her.
Many commenters pointed out how serious C-section recovery is, calling the husband selfish and insensitive. Others shared their own stories or health professionals explained why his request was unreasonable.
It’s a reminder that fatherhood means being present, not escaping responsibilities when your partner needs you most.
