Dating in the modern world looks different through Ali C. Lopez’s eyes. The transgender influencer, who transitioned from male to female, offers unique insights about how masculinity has changed – and not for the better, in her opinion.
After gaining fame on the Whatever podcast (and earning the unfortunate “Gorlock the Destroyer” nickname), Lopez built a massive TikTok following discussing relationships. Her controversial view? Today’s men have become too fragile. “They expect women to do everything while they sit back getting princess treatment,” she claims.
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Lopez longs for traditional gender roles in her relationships – not the toxic variety, but the kind where partners complement each other’s strengths. She wants a man who can handle basic tasks without her calling her father for help. This perspective has made her both celebrated and attacked online, with commenters either applauding her honesty or cruelly mocking her appearance.
What makes Lopez’s take particularly interesting is her dual perspective – having lived as both male and female. While not everyone agrees with her views, they’ve undoubtedly sparked important conversations about what we really want from modern relationships and whether traditional masculinity needs preserving or redefining.
