Neil Patrick Harris and his husband David Burtka have been proud parents to their twins, Gideon and Harper, since 2010. The couple decided to start their family with the help of a surrogate mother, using a unique approach where each donated sperm to fertilize separate eggs. This meant neither could say for sure which child was biologically theirs. Despite curiosity from the public, Neil has made it clear he prefers to keep it that way.
View this post on Instagram
The actor, known for his memorable roles in television and film, has always spoken openly about his family life and values. For him, the importance lies not in biological ties, but in the love and commitment he shares with both children. When asked about the choice, Neil said he has no desire to find out which twin is biologically his because they are both equally his children—created through intention and love.
Neil and David’s decision reflects their deep dedication to parenthood. They hoped both embryos would develop successfully, and, miraculously, they did. It was a joyful surprise that both men could become biological fathers at the same time. Neil’s feelings toward his children go beyond genetics; he cherishes them as his own without needing confirmation of biology.
Now that their twins are teenagers, the couple shares updates on the joys and challenges of parenting. Neil recently joked about the inevitable teenage attitude but praised their kids for being thoughtful and well-mannered. His Instagram posts celebrate their growth and express his unwavering love, emphasizing that family is about support and connection rather than biology.
While fans sometimes speculate about which twin looks more like whom, Neil remains steadfast in his belief that knowing the biological details is unnecessary. His story is a touching reminder that family bonds come from love and care, not just DNA.
