For Emma Flint, love was never a straight path. Over 30 years, her attractions shifted in ways she couldn’t explain—until she discovered the term “abrosexual.”
Abrosexuality refers to those whose sexual orientation changes over time. Emma spent years identifying as a lesbian, only to later feel drawn to men or experience no attraction at all. The confusion left her feeling adrift. “I was unsure of who I was,” she recalls. But when she learned about abrosexuality, everything fell into place.
What sets abrosexuality apart is its focus on change rather than fixed categories. Emma explains, “It’s about the person, not their gender.” Yet, some still question her identity, urging her to “choose a side.” Her response? Authenticity doesn’t require others’ approval.
Abrosexuality looks different for everyone. Some feel shifts daily, while others notice gradual changes. What matters is honoring your truth, no matter how it evolves. Emma’s journey reminds us that sexuality is deeply personal—and that self-acceptance is worth the wait.
