Deanne Carson, a sexuality educator, sparked intense debate with her suggestion that parents seek permission before changing babies’ nappies. She advocates asking “Is it okay?” and awaiting eye contact and body language cues.
Critics label this approach “absurd,” questioning what happens if a baby signals refusal or remains dirty until consenting. Social media users ridiculed the idea, deeming it impractical.
Proponents argue teaching consent is crucial. Only About Children, a childcare chain, adopted Carson’s concept, encouraging parents to involve babies in nappy changes.
Their approach emphasizes sensory stimulation and independence, such as letting children remove nappies or wipe themselves.
This controversy highlights the challenge of balancing theoretical ideals with real-world parenting. While consent education is vital, Carson’s method raises doubts about feasibility.
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