Australian sexuality educator Deanne Carson has ignited controversy by proposing that parents should ask babies for permission before changing their diapers, emphasizing the importance of building a culture of consent from birth. While babies cannot verbally respond, Carson encourages parents to narrate the process — for example, saying “I’m going to change your diaper now, is that okay?” — and to observe body language and eye contact as forms of nonverbal communication.
Carson explains this approach builds respect for the child’s autonomy and personal boundaries, fostering trust even in infancy. However, many critics argue it is impractical, with some dismissing the idea as “lefty lunacy” or accusing Carson of overcomplicating a necessary parental duty.
'Sexuality expert' says parents should ask for baby's consent when changing nappies.
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Social media erupted with mixed reactions, from ridicule toward Carson’s approach to defense appreciating the aim of teaching consent early, even if the application seems extreme.
